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Seeing a Therapist….

July 22, 2015 by beverly steinhauer Leave a Comment

The thought of seeing a therapist makes many people uncomfortable. This is understandable as you go to talk about things that are stress producing, hurtful and troubling. It is difficult to walk into a stranger’s office and speak of heart felt, private issues. Counseling really is a unique experience. In my office you need to know you are in a safe place, you will not be judged, my ideas and values will not be imposed on you and everything we talk about is and will be confidential. It is your Vegas, just like the old commercial, “what happens in Vegas …stays in Vegas.” Confidentiality is the essence of counseling and allows it to work.

When clients come in for session, they have usually exhausted their resources and feel they need help, say a new perspective, options or a plan. Together we sit down, talk and decide what works for your particular needs and situation. Sometimes clients know exactly where the problem lies, but are not sure what to do about it. Other times, they know there is a problem, but have no idea what is causing it. Either way, training and experience come into play and with a collaborated effort, we will work through to resolve your issues to a happier, healthier state of well- being. This is accomplished with individual, couples, family therapy, or sometimes an appropriate combination.

Remember, “Life is hard.” There is no shame in having problems. You are not unique in that regard. It is sad and potentially tragic  when people continue to live in the shadows of their problems, afraid to confront them, continuing to push them down in an effort to deal with them,  consequently affecting their marriage, work and all aspects of life. Often the frustration and pain is too much and they begin to self-medicate. They will do any thing to escape these feelings. Your body hurts from depression and anxiety. For some, escaping to alcohol, drugs, sex, work, porn etc., feeling an intermittent reprieve, can escalate to an addiction. Before you know it, you have even bigger problems than before.

There is help. Find a good therapist, someone you can comfortably talk with that has the training required to help. I would be happy to meet with you and talk.

Filed Under: addiction, anxiety, confidential help, depression, pain, sex addiction Tagged With: addiction, alcohol addiction, anxiety, certified sex addiction therapist, Confidential help, depression, drug addiction, Find a therapist, Get help, porn, sex addiction, work addiction

Porn is taking away men’s ability to have actual sex…

June 21, 2015 by beverly steinhauer Leave a Comment

Who would have thought looking at porn could be a real problem. Studies today are showing erectile disfunction as well as the inability to have a caring, loving relationship, to be the result of  pornography addiction or prolonged, frequent use.

fightthenewdrug.org/porn-is-taking-away-mens-ability-to-have-actual-sex/#sthash.JDc3i692.OmemnQEb.dpbs

Filed Under: abuse, addiction, anxiety, betrayed spouse, depression, self awareness, sex addiction, trauma, Uncategorized Tagged With: addiction, certified sex addiction therapist, ED, erectile disfunction, loving relationship, neuropathways, porn, pornography and consequences, sex addiction, sex addicts

Seven Signs

June 2, 2015 by beverly steinhauer Leave a Comment

By Lisa Kirchner 08/03/12

From serial dating to unsafe sex to unexpected STDs, here are some must-read tips to find out if you—or your partner—are suffering from sex addiction.

Watching porn certainly does not indicate one has a problem with porn or sex addiction. An infidelity does not indicate sex addiction. How can you identify a problem or this much misunderstood addiction? This is a very direct, down to earth article about the signs and symptoms you might want to see a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) about.

http://www.thefix.com/content/7-signs-you%E2%80%99re-dating-sex-addict70002

Filed Under: addiction, betrayed spouse, self awareness, sex addiction, worry Tagged With: addiction, affairs, Ashley Madison, certified sex addiction therapist, CSAT, infidelity, sex, sex addiction, worry

Explanation for Addiction

October 27, 2014 by admin Leave a Comment

After years of reading and study, this is about the best explanation for addiction that I have come across. Dr. McCauley is easy to understand, interesting and sometimes funny.
Why are some people addicts, and some people are not? This is well worth your time. I hope you listen.

Filed Under: addiction Tagged With: addiction, Dr. McCauley

Cybersex Explosion

July 2, 2014 by admin Leave a Comment

Did you know…………?

The interactive features and availability online can be addictive. Because of the widespread availability of sexually explicit materials online, Internet sex addiction is the most common form of online behavior among users.” (Young, Caught in the Net)

Frequently Sexual addictions are rooted in trauma, or abuse, but, curiosity and exposure to sexually explicit materials online is enough to fuel an addiction. Whether use is due to curiosity or unresolved issues, the result has unlimited possibilities online.


Cybersex Explosion

We are experiencing a Cybersex Explosion of tsunami proportions. Cybersex is considered the “crack cocaine” of sex addiction.

 

Some interesting facts:

20% of Internet users engage in online sex addiction behavior.

40 Million Americans visit porn sites one time a month (Internet filter review site, Maltz)

One third of all downloads per month and one fourth of all searches per day are from porn.

25% in the US are accessing porn at work (2008 Nielson online survey).

70% of men reported increased use of porn since the Internet (Mens’ Health, 2004).

70% of men keep their porn use a secret and 8 – 15% report compulsive sexual behavior (MSNBC, 2000).

The average age for the first contact with Internet porn is about 11 years of age.

The 12-17 year old age group is the largest consumer of Internet porn.

The average age for seeking help with Cybersex Issues is between 30 and 35 years of age.

The gender prevalence of men versus women with Cybersex issues is 60% – 40% respectively.

80% of married sex addicts thought marriage was the answer to their addiction.

The National Council on Sexual Addiction Compulsivity estimated that six to eight percent of Americans are sex addicts, which is 16 to 21.5 million people.

71% of those people with sexual-acting-out problems also use the Internet as a venue.

70% of the Internet porn traffic occurs during the 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. workday.

Cybersex is extremely addictive because of the virtual anonymity and availability.

Cybersex addiction escalates extremely rapidly.

 

 

 

Filed Under: addiction, sex addiction Tagged With: addiction, cyber sex, cybersex, pornography, sex addiction

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Life is a journey that sometimes requires assistance whether you are struggling with everyday problems or more complex issues. Your choice of Counselors is important. With over thirty years of experience in nursing and counseling, my approach is holistic, working with each client to give them hope, while bolstering their self-esteem and strengthening their ties with a supportive network. This is accomplished in a safe, confidential atmosphere of mutual respect, fostering sensitivity and understanding. My interest and training are diverse with advanced, specialized training in several areas. These sub-specialties broaden my scope of practice and capabilities to meet the individual needs of my clients.

Some areas of Interest and Experience include but are not limited to:
Sexual Addiction
Partners of Sex Addicts
Intimacy disorders
Relationship problems
Mood Disorders including Depression and Bipolar
Anxiety Disorders
Chronic Pain
Trauma Resolution
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
Sexual Abuse
Incest
Adult ADHD
Teens and Online Addictions (i.e., Pornography and Gaming)

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Aren’t we all addicted to sex?

I recently heard this remark. Not sure if they were joking or serious. I think the best way to approach this question is to ask what constitutes an addiction. Merriam Webster defines addiction as: The compulsive need for and use of a habit forming substance (as heroin, nicotine, or alcohol) characterized by tolerance and by well-defined physiological symptoms upon withdrawal; broadly: persistent compulsive use of a substance known by the user to be harmful. With regard to sexual addiction, I have heard several definitions, but I deferred to Patrick Carnes and his explanation. “Sexual addiction is defined as any sexually-related, … Read More >>>

Why should I choose a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT)?

As a problem becomes more complex, it requires more specialized treatment. Certified Sex Addiction Therapists (CSATs) are recognized as experts in sex addiction treatment. Often sex addiction has underpinnings of trauma and abuse. CSATs are trained to pick up on things that another counselor would perhaps not see.

Take a Screening Test

The Sex Addiction Screening Test (SAST) is designed to assist in the assessment of sexually compulsive behavior that may … Read More >>>

SIGNS & SYMPTOMS

There are many signs that point to sex addiction, below is a list of some symptoms and signs to watch out for: Loss … Read More >>>

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